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a love letter to taking the long way home

A small argument against making every route, connection and ordinary day as efficient as possible.
A street in Valencia in the evening
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I have a habit of taking longer routes when I have nowhere I urgently need to be.

Not always intentionally.

Sometimes I just see a street that looks nicer than the one I am supposed to take.

Or I decide to walk instead of taking the bus.

Or I keep going for another ten minutes because the weather is good and I do not feel like going inside yet.

Those little detours rarely lead anywhere important.

And maybe that is why I like them.

There is no destination to reach.

No list to complete.

No reason to hurry.

You notice different things when you are not trying to get somewhere as quickly as possible.

A house you have never paid attention to.

A small shop.

Light coming through the trees.

A street that suddenly feels unfamiliar even though you have lived nearby for years.

Sometimes I think we spend so much time trying to make everything efficient.

The shortest route.

The fastest connection.

The quickest way to finish something.

And of course, most days, that makes sense.

But some of my favourite moments have happened because something took longer than necessary.

A walk.

A train ride.

Getting slightly lost somewhere new.

Choosing the scenic route simply because I could.

Maybe that is what I like about taking the long way home.

For a little while, the time between one place and another becomes its own part of the day.

Not dead time.

Not something to get through.

Just time.

And every now and then, you find something you would have missed if you had taken the fastest way back.